Monday, January 11, 2021

Teenagers Times Four

There are now four teenagers in this house! All the make-up, skin care products, hair care products, nail polish and shoes... every where! It's insanity, but it's my insanity and overall, I love it.

Everyone is doing well. None of the kids have an average lower than a B, Cayla and Ad are looking into taking college classes before they graduate and it's looking like Karly and Kendra will be able to also.

Cayla wants a boyfriend which I'm okay with I suppose, but I worry that she's trying to grow up too fast. Ad doesn't want a steady girlfriend, but he is considering asking a girl in his class on a date.

Thankfully, neither Karly nor Kendra have mentioned any boys to me, but that doesn't mean they're not interested. They're very close with Cayla and Ad so I'm sure there have been talks.

I'm glad little Brenna is still a little girl. She still enjoys me reading to her and lets me play games with her. At least until this Friday when she joins the teenage ranks of the Middleton house.

I worry that Ash is a little too serious most of the time and he still misses his grandma from time to time (Gianna's mom passed away), but all in all he's doing well.

It took me a long time to get over the divorce. Gianna and I still aren't on the best of terms, but we're able to be civil and spend time together with the children. I'm happy though and enjoying life. I've considered dating again, but I just don't have the time to devote to it. Maybe I'll consider it again when Ash is older if I'm not too old myself by then.

Settling Settlements

Through the divorce, Gianna had to pay me all the money she hid. My attorney wanted to make her pay more, but I refused. We'll be ok with just getting back the money she hid and she's going to need the money more than me since she had to move out of her mom's house and pay child support for the kids. I almost feel bad about that, but then I remind myself that she's the one who put herself (and all of us) in this situation to begin with. Had she just been honest and told me she wanted out, she probably would've ended up with more money than she had tucked away dishonestly. 

Gianna did ask the kids to come visit a couple times after she got settled into her new place. She came and spent time with the kids for Springfest too and helped them with their egg hunt. They all had fun and I'll admit to enjoying watching them running all over the house and giggling. I cooked a fish dinner and while we didn't all sit down together to eat, everyone seemed to enjoy it.

Brenna had a birthday and started grade school. She looked so adorable that first morning with her little backpack and blonde curls. Tomorrow is Ash's birthday. I'm a little sad about that, but also looking forward to no more stinky potty chairs! The very next day Cayla and Ad will be teenagers. I can't believe I'm already old enough to have teenagers! 

Friday, January 8, 2021

Betrayal

I found out last night that Gianna has been taking money from our account and putting it into a secret account she had created with only her name on it. She'd tell me she was paying bills and was instead putting money into this secret account. She had thousands of dollars. Her plan was to take the majority of the money then leave for what she called a vacation. The problem for her is that she didn't know it, but I had found her plane ticket. It's a one way ticket. She never planned to come back.

I am heartbroken and divorced and alone with six small children. She moved out, I think to her mother's. I don't even know for sure. She loves the kids, I know she does, but she never once mentioned when she would see them and didn't ask to take them with her. Maybe the full house was just too much stress for her. I won't give up my kids, but I'd certainly like for us to have shared custody so they still have ample time with their mother. Hopefully she doesn't let them down on that.

I don't even know which bills are behind yet or by how much. I may have to get a job to make sure we all have what we need. I'm starting to regret not getting that university education my father wanted me to have. 

Friday, January 1, 2021

Moving Birthday

We spent yesterday moving to Oasis Springs to a much bigger house. Then we enjoyed the evening celebrating Asher's birthday. Time certainly flies. It seems like no more than three days ago when he was born!

This weekend, Brenna and I have our own birthdays to celebrate. Watching her run around the house in her diaper, it's hard to believe she'll be starting school just next week. 

Gianna and I have both put on weight and have agreed to work on getting healthier together.

Thursday, December 24, 2020

It's A...

BOY!! It's a BOY! I have a son! Asher Ely Middleton VI has entered the world! Mother and baby are doing exceptionally well and have successfully completed our family!

Karly and Kendra have started school and are doing well, only needing reminders to do their homework. Cayla and Ad are both doing well also and are happy that their younger sisters are finally old enough to play with them.

Brenna is now running all over the place and getting into everything.

I don't know how life could possibly get any better! I haven't mentioned this to Gianna yet, but I've been considering moving to a bigger house or possibly having one built on the land we're on now. She's been saying we're outgrowing our current house and she's right. There isn't much room here at all for a family as big as ours has gotten. Especially now that we have Asher who will be needing his "big boy" toddler bed soon.

Right now, Cayla and Ad are sharing a room, Karly and Kendra are sharing a room, and Brenna has one to herself, but if we don't move, we'd have to squeeze Asher in there too and there just isn't much space. Oh well, that's a decision for another day. For now, I'm calling it a night. It's my turn for the middle-of-the-night feeding and I only have a few hours before my babyboy is up crying for his daddy.

Good night, all!

Wednesday, December 23, 2020

Growing and Expanding

Little Brenna, my youngest, just had a birthday and is already roaming all over the house and into everything! It's fun to watch her expand and explore her area, though. She has long blonde curls that bounce when she walks and she's always smiling and laughing. 

More big news: Gianna is pregnant again! A sixth child on the way! I swear I'd love a little girl just as much, but I'm hoping this one's a boy. I don't know how many more kids we can handle! 

Saturday, December 19, 2020

About Me

 As I mentioned in the previous post, my name is Asher Ely Middleton V. I come from a line of proud, strong, intelligent men. Even with their somewhat ancient beliefs, they all have had good intentions. I was taught at a young age about my father, grandfather, and ancestors and the lineage that has been passed down to me which I am expected to now pass down to my own children for them to pass to their children and so on.

First and foremost: The name. The name is most important because this is how we honor the first Asher. After running from a neglectful, abusive home, he started his life with literally only the clothes on his back and was still a kind and giving man. He earned money any way he could, but mostly it was with farming. He actually started by harvesting fruits and flowers in the wild. He would harvest them, save what he needed to live off of and then use the remaining few to plant into a small plot of land and then sell what he harvested from them. It took a long time, but he managed to build a small home and begin his family. There are rumors that at times he stole items to sell on the black market when he needed extra money. My father and grandfather of course deny this, but I believe it to be true.

It was also hoped that I would graduate college and become a politician like my father. Honestly, I don't know how he did it. While he didn't make it to the top of his career, he did do well. I can't help but wonder how much farther he would have gone had he not dabbled in drugs while in college. He did somehow manage to graduate though, and I have his graduation picture and diploma hanging on a wall in my home which I will one day pass on to my own son.

Personally, I have no interest in politics and all the meeting and greeting it requires. I'd much rather spend my days with my family and close friends. I also don't have the expensive taste my father had and as soon as I was able, I moved Gianna, my sister Alexia and I from my fathers mansion in Brindleton Bay to a modest home on Mt. Komorebi. With my family growing as large as it is, though, it's looking like we'll have to move again to something larger soon.

As a teenager, not long after my father passed, I was granted the Kindness Ambassador award and other than my family, that is my greatest achievement. My father would have been proud, even if he would perhaps expect more.  My mother was already gone to the great creator at the time too. I would have loved to have seen the smile beaming on her face. This all makes me extra grateful for Gianna who has always been there for me.

After my father died, I was faced with a decision that would have been tough for anyone, let alone a teenager who had just become an orphan. You see, my little sister, Alexia, was still just a child at the time. I was given the opportunity to try to raise her myself, with some assistance from officials, or she could live with an aunt of ours. I didn't want to send her to live with our old aunt, but I also wanted to do what would be best for her. I decided after much thought that it was important for Alexia and I to stay together. However, just a few days ago, Alexia was coming home from skiing and froze to death in the snow right outside our front door. I don't know why she didn't have her coat on. Of course, our entire family was absolutely heart-broken for exactly three days. Then suddenly, we were fine and happy again, just like that! As if the feelings of sadness were on some sort of timer!

With that, I believe my dear readers are all caught up and I will post again soon.

Teenagers Times Four

There are now four teenagers in this house! All the make-up, skin care products, hair care products, nail polish and shoes... every where! I...