Thursday, December 24, 2020

It's A...

BOY!! It's a BOY! I have a son! Asher Ely Middleton VI has entered the world! Mother and baby are doing exceptionally well and have successfully completed our family!

Karly and Kendra have started school and are doing well, only needing reminders to do their homework. Cayla and Ad are both doing well also and are happy that their younger sisters are finally old enough to play with them.

Brenna is now running all over the place and getting into everything.

I don't know how life could possibly get any better! I haven't mentioned this to Gianna yet, but I've been considering moving to a bigger house or possibly having one built on the land we're on now. She's been saying we're outgrowing our current house and she's right. There isn't much room here at all for a family as big as ours has gotten. Especially now that we have Asher who will be needing his "big boy" toddler bed soon.

Right now, Cayla and Ad are sharing a room, Karly and Kendra are sharing a room, and Brenna has one to herself, but if we don't move, we'd have to squeeze Asher in there too and there just isn't much space. Oh well, that's a decision for another day. For now, I'm calling it a night. It's my turn for the middle-of-the-night feeding and I only have a few hours before my babyboy is up crying for his daddy.

Good night, all!

Wednesday, December 23, 2020

Growing and Expanding

Little Brenna, my youngest, just had a birthday and is already roaming all over the house and into everything! It's fun to watch her expand and explore her area, though. She has long blonde curls that bounce when she walks and she's always smiling and laughing. 

More big news: Gianna is pregnant again! A sixth child on the way! I swear I'd love a little girl just as much, but I'm hoping this one's a boy. I don't know how many more kids we can handle! 

Saturday, December 19, 2020

About Me

 As I mentioned in the previous post, my name is Asher Ely Middleton V. I come from a line of proud, strong, intelligent men. Even with their somewhat ancient beliefs, they all have had good intentions. I was taught at a young age about my father, grandfather, and ancestors and the lineage that has been passed down to me which I am expected to now pass down to my own children for them to pass to their children and so on.

First and foremost: The name. The name is most important because this is how we honor the first Asher. After running from a neglectful, abusive home, he started his life with literally only the clothes on his back and was still a kind and giving man. He earned money any way he could, but mostly it was with farming. He actually started by harvesting fruits and flowers in the wild. He would harvest them, save what he needed to live off of and then use the remaining few to plant into a small plot of land and then sell what he harvested from them. It took a long time, but he managed to build a small home and begin his family. There are rumors that at times he stole items to sell on the black market when he needed extra money. My father and grandfather of course deny this, but I believe it to be true.

It was also hoped that I would graduate college and become a politician like my father. Honestly, I don't know how he did it. While he didn't make it to the top of his career, he did do well. I can't help but wonder how much farther he would have gone had he not dabbled in drugs while in college. He did somehow manage to graduate though, and I have his graduation picture and diploma hanging on a wall in my home which I will one day pass on to my own son.

Personally, I have no interest in politics and all the meeting and greeting it requires. I'd much rather spend my days with my family and close friends. I also don't have the expensive taste my father had and as soon as I was able, I moved Gianna, my sister Alexia and I from my fathers mansion in Brindleton Bay to a modest home on Mt. Komorebi. With my family growing as large as it is, though, it's looking like we'll have to move again to something larger soon.

As a teenager, not long after my father passed, I was granted the Kindness Ambassador award and other than my family, that is my greatest achievement. My father would have been proud, even if he would perhaps expect more.  My mother was already gone to the great creator at the time too. I would have loved to have seen the smile beaming on her face. This all makes me extra grateful for Gianna who has always been there for me.

After my father died, I was faced with a decision that would have been tough for anyone, let alone a teenager who had just become an orphan. You see, my little sister, Alexia, was still just a child at the time. I was given the opportunity to try to raise her myself, with some assistance from officials, or she could live with an aunt of ours. I didn't want to send her to live with our old aunt, but I also wanted to do what would be best for her. I decided after much thought that it was important for Alexia and I to stay together. However, just a few days ago, Alexia was coming home from skiing and froze to death in the snow right outside our front door. I don't know why she didn't have her coat on. Of course, our entire family was absolutely heart-broken for exactly three days. Then suddenly, we were fine and happy again, just like that! As if the feelings of sadness were on some sort of timer!

With that, I believe my dear readers are all caught up and I will post again soon.

About My Family

Since this is my first post, I decided I should write a little about my family to help any readers get to know us all a little better and hopefully understand some decisions that have been made. That sounds terribly foreboding, I know. It's not as bad as it sounds, though. At least, not in most cases.

My name is Asher Ely Middleton V. Just after my birthday upon growing into young adulthood, I married my high school sweetheart Gianna Adair, daughter of Beckett and Sadie Jayne (Delatore) Adair. Unfortunately, Beckett left us not long ago, but Sadie Jayne is still with us. A lot. Almost every day. I'm glad Gianna has her mother still around and able to visit. I like Sadie Jayne, but she can be a bit much sometimes. I didn't know Beckett well, but he and I did get along well and I'll miss having drinks with him at our cookouts.

Gianna is a wonderful woman and I don't mind risking sounding mushy when I say she is a true gem and the love of my life. I'm a lucky man. Like everyone, she does have her faults. She is known to have sticky fingers from time to time and occasionally one might find an item to two missing from their home after she visits, but like I said, we all have our faults. While some might only see her as a greedy thief, having known her since we were children, I also see her quiet, thoughtful side. The side who can draw the kindness out of anyone. The side that can turn anything and anyone into an artful muse which she then brings to life on canvas with astonishing intricacy. Like me, she is a deep thinker, but she has creative visionary skills that bring her artistry potential to an even higher level. As you can see, she has many wonderful qualities, but to me, her best are her ability to keep her emotions in check as she helps me do the same with mine all while being an amazing mother to our five children. 

We have five children. Five. I didn't expect to have such a large family, but fate will do what it will. Our four oldest children are two sets of twins. I had gotten so used to having twins that I was surprised when our baby came along all by herself. All five children are girls and while I love them dearly, I do hope to have a son to carry on the family name. I haven't done all of the things my father and his father and grandfathers before him expected of me, so I would like to do this one most important thing and have a son to continue on our legacy. So, even with five children, we're not done growing our family just yet.

Our two oldest children are Cayla Ann and Adelaide Leanne, adorable little redheads who just grew out of toddlerhood and started elementary school. Cayla, our firstborn, is rambunctious and determined to make an adventure out of any situation. I'm certain she'll travel the world some day. Adelaide has decided she is a boy and insists we call her only Ad and use he/him pronouns so we do. Who are we do say who our children are? We don't own them and we do respect them. Ad declared all this to us (confidently and strongly, I'm proud to say) what seemed like the very day he was able to form a full sentence. The next day, Gianna took him shopping in the "boy" section and Ad gave Cayla all his "girlie" clothes. Ad's IQ has tested into the genius level, he's our little brain. Even I have found myself turning to him when I'm struggling with understanding something I've read or seen on the television.

When Cayla and Ad were still toddlers themselves, Karly Jayne and Kendra Alexia were born. Karly has the most beautiful little blonde curls I've ever seen and although Kendra's hair hasn't grown quite as long, it's easy to see that she'll have the same little blonde curls as her twin sister. These two are inseparable and guaranteed if you see one, the other is nearby. They are a bit clingy, but they're both so sweet we don't mind at all and we love every single moment.

Brenna Sadie is our beautiful baby girl who was born just yesterday. She cries more than her sisters did and she keeps us on our toes, stealing our sleep, but she also stole our hearts so it's a fair trade.


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